Let me ask you something…
Do you know what’s the most important thing you must have to accelerate your life goals?
No, it’s not motivation even though that’s necessary…
And no, it’s not the idea, goal, or dream, even though those are important as well…The most important thing you must have to achieve your goals is…
YOUR MINDSET
Our mindset is the main program that commands you to react and respond to circumstances.
And depending on how you’ve been programmed, it can be your curse or your blessing.
The reason why I’m saying ‘you’ve been programmed’ is that EVERYONE in this world has been programmed by others BEFORE they started programming themselves.
You see, when you were a kid, you were constantly told by your parents what was wrong and what was right.
And when you grow up, the things you’ve been told and taught as a kid influence your decisions.
For example, some parents say things in front of their kids like…
- They succeeded because they are lucky
- If it was not because of his parents, he wouldn’t have been successful
- So on and so on
So, when those kids grow up into adults, they’ll steer away from becoming successful because they believe that successful people are successful because they were lucky.
But on top of that, if they somehow get over that belief and commit to becoming successful…
… the same people that taught them those things will come into action and start saying things like…
- You are not meant to be successful
- Only 1% of people can achieve what you desire
- It is impossible
- Successful people have very successful parents who back them up
- So on and so on
And if your mindset is not strong enough to deal with those statements, you’ll give up on the idea of becoming successful.
And this is not only for becoming a successful person…
It’s the same if you decide to start a business, get fit, move to a new country, make a change, invest in something, quit your job, change your job, etc.
But, do you know what’s the sad truth?
The sad truth is that the people who keep you from achieving what you desire believe that they’re doing you good; but when in reality, they’re doing you more harm.
They’re doing this because nobody they know or is close to them has achieved what you desire.
They find it hard to believe in you because they haven’t witnessed someone, they know achieve the thing you want to achieve.
That’s why your mindset can be your curse or your blessing. If you have a strong mindset, you won’t be easily influenced by the naysayers…
And to achieve whatever you want; you have to get rid of the negative beliefs.
But, changing the mindset is hard and it requires a lot of work.
After all, you have to unlearn what you’ve been told for decades and quit habits that you’ve built for years.
The good news is that we at EngineerPH have abundant articles created with the sole purpose to help you reprogram your mindset …
… and not only to reprogram your mind but also to start making your goals a reality!
So, if you want to change your mindset and start making your goals and dreams a reality, browse more of our articles and be better every day, one idea at a time…
Author: The Pinoy Engineer
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