Your thoughts influence your feelings, which then influence your behaviors, which further influence your results.
Narinig ko ang iba say it differently… your words become actions, which eventually become your destiny.
Katulad din ni Napoleon Hill, na sumulat ng Think and Grow Rich at naging the twentieth century father of personal success, asserts that words plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.
Nalaman ko na ang mga successful Filipinos are intentional about the words they speak to themselves and to others.
Ang totoo, regardless of how you may define success, ang iyong mga salita (those that you say to yourself as well as those you say out loud to other people) will help manifest that vision into your reality.Kaya narito ang 6 bagay that happy and successful Pinoys never say.
THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE
Interestingly unsuccessful Filipinos are always pointing out what is not possible.
Para sa kanila, ang baso is always half empty, nabubuhay sila in a world of impossibilities; mayroon silang isang can’t-do attitude, kaya sinasabi nila: “I can’t” or “that can’t be done” or “that’s impossible.”
Hindi lamang ang mga salitang ito ay self-limiting, others perceive them as pessimistic, unconstructive, even defeatist.
Successful Pinoys are aware that their path to success is littered with obstacles that may slow them down or even stop them entirely.
Tinatanggal nila ang mga hadlang, or figure out a way to go over, under, or around it.
So successful Filipinos say: “I have a choice,” “Here are our options,” or, “Let’s imagine all the possibilities.”
I CAN DO IT ALL MYSELF
Alam ng successful Pinoys ang kahalagahan ng pagkakaroon ng isang mahusay na koponan na nakapaligid sa kanila and they recognize that if they’re the smartest person in their team they’re in trouble.
IT IS NOT FAIR
Alam naman ng lahat na ang buhay ay hindi talaga patas.
Saying it’s not fair suggests that you think life is supposed to be fair and shows you don’t really have a handle on how things work.
Successful Filipinos are successful dahil kapag ang mga posibillidad ay laban sa kanila they try even harder, rather than complaining and giving up.
I WILL TRY
The word try sounds tentative at nagmumungkahi na wala kang kumpiyansa sa iyong kakayahan to execute the task.
Take full ownership of your capabilities.
If you’re asked to do something, either commit to doing it or offer an alternative, ngunit huwag mong sasabihin that you’ll try because it sounds like you won’t try all that hard.
Tandaan sa Star Wars sinabi ni Yoda: “Do or do not – there is no try.”
I ALREADY KNOW THAT
This phrase is a sign of pure defensiveness — nangangahulugan na you’ve stopped trying to learn and grow and have become more interested in being perceived as all knowing.
Speaking intelligently and providing insight about a subject is one thing, but there is always more to learn, and even if you think you “know it,” are you actually applying what you know?
HE IS STUPID – SHE IS LAZY – HE IS A JERK
Successful Pinoys don’t gossip, hindi sila Marites (Mare, anong latest) and they avoid words of judgment, insult and negativity.
If they can’t say something good about someone, they don’t say anything.
BOTTOM LINE
Isipin ang mga bagay na sinasabi mo sa iyong sarili at sa iba that you need to stop saying.
Then stop saying them!
It will benefit you to get rid of these terms from your vocabulary
Ang problema is they have a tendency to sneak up on you, so you’re going to have to catch yourself until you’ve solidified the habit of not saying them.
Author: The Pinoy Engineer
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