How To Live The Life Of Your Dreams WITHOUT Sacrificing Your Relationships, Health Or Peace Of Mind?
We live in a culture where hustling is valued more highly than intelligence by our kapwa Pinoys.
And because Filipinos often say things like …
“Get up at 4AM to work on your goals!”
“Work until you succeed, or die trying!”
“You should work 16 hours a day!”
“Success never sleeps, so there is no time for relaxation!”
Additionally, many of our kababayans who aspire to be like the successful Filipinos who give this advice do so because they are themselves Filipinos.
As a result, they work too much, don’t get enough sleep, and neglect or even forego spending time with their loved ones.
But doing that won’t help you accomplish your objectives at all!
WRONG WAY TO ACHIEVE A GOAL
The WRONG way to accomplish a goal is if you have to give up a part of your life in order to do it.
Because you risk losing the things that matter most to you in life while working toward your ambitions…
Things like your family, spiritual wellness, and physical and mental health.
You can end up in the hospital because of overworking…
… if you don’t spend enough time with your family, they can decide to leave you.
… and you can destroy your inner peace of mind…
… just because someone somewhere said that you should work 16 hours a day.
So, if you’re doing what I described above to achieve your goals…
IMMEDIATELY STOP
Stop while the harm is still little and begin using the RIGHT approach to reach your objectives.
The RIGHT way to achieve your goals is to pursue your goals while balancing the 6 aspects of life.
Those aspects of life are:
- Physical Health
- Family and Relationship
- Wealth and Money
- Work and Career Prosperity
- Spiritual Wellness
- Mental Health
I’m telling you this because I used to be attaining my goals in the WRONG method…
That happened when I started EngineerPH.
When I started EngineerPH, I was working in a very successful Mining company in the Philippines as a Senior Manager.
I had very huge goals for EngineerPH and wanted to pursue them full-time but…
… I had a family to take care of, so I couldn’t leave my job that provided food for my family for an idea that wasn’t bringing anything.
So, I decided to work at both EngineerPH and at the company where I was employed.
At first, nothing happened.
I was working up to 20 hours a day, starting to achieve goals, and had no problems whatsoever.
But after a while of working too much, my life started to unravel.
My wife was no longer able to handle it, thus my family was disintegrating.
My health began to decline, and I started experiencing back pain…
My mental health plummeted, and I started to have difficulties falling asleep. That is to say, my life descended into chaos.
MAKE A TOUGH DECISION
I knew I had to make a sacrifice in order to put my life back on track because I couldn’t handle it any longer.
One of the toughest decisions I had ever had to make in my life was before me.
Either to give up on EngineerPH and concentrate on my engineering profession, or to quit my well-paying job and devote all of my time to EngineerPH.
So, following several days of deliberation and trepidation, I decided.
I decided to give up my managerial job to pursue EngineerPH thinking that was the solution to my unbalanced life but…
… I was wrong.
Even after quitting my job in the Philippines and focusing only on EngineerPH, I continued to have the same issues.
I continued to work too much (up to 20 hours a day)…
My family was still experiencing issues.
My physical and emotional health were equally poor…
I actually encountered the same issues as before.
It took me a while to discover that I was actually working toward my objectives in the WRONG way.
I then promised myself that I would find a solution to my life’s imbalance and stop pursuing my objectives in the wrong way.
I so began attempting to balance my life, and after learning and attempting for weeks and months, I eventually saw some success!
My health gradually began to get better…
My wife and I started to get along better…
I began to feel less anxious and joyful…
And at that moment, a lightbulb appeared in my head.
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I’ve learned how to accomplish my goals in the RIGHT way and how to accomplish them in the Wrong way.
I truly wanted to share this and assist Filipinos who were experiencing the same problem I was after watching my success.
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